Your rhythm matters
What we do by day shapes what we feel by night. Try:
â Sipping herbal tea (chamomile + lemon balm) after dinner
â Walking barefoot on grass at sunsetâlet the earth steady you
â Leaving screens in another room after 8 p.m. (let your eyes remember darkness)
Your body knows how to rest. Sometimes it just needs us to stop fighting it.
A Gentle Note on Health
Sometimes, wakefulness speaks a deeper languageâthyroid whispers, blood sugar sighs, or the quiet ache of grief. This isnât weakness. Itâs wisdom calling for a gentle hand.
If nights feel heavy for weeks:
â Speak with a trusted healthcare providerânot as a last resort, but as an act of self-respect.
â Share this truth: âIâve been listening to my body. Help me understand its song.â
You wonât âfixâ sleep in one night.
But you might learn to welcome the quiet hours differently:
â When you wake, donât check the clock. Breathe instead.
â If thoughts race, trace the grain of your wooden bedside tableâanchor yourself in the now.
â Keep a glass of water by the bed, but sip slowly. Hydration is kindness; urgency is stress.
And on the hardest nights?
Wrap yourself in this truth:
âThis is not forever.
Dawn is patient.
And so am I.â
May your room hold you like a cradle.
May your breath slow like a river at dusk.
May you trust the dark enough to rest in it.
For in the space between waking and sleeping,
you are not alone.
You are exactly where you need to beâ
learning, slowly,
to be kind to the keeper of your rest.
